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4 REASONS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUCKS!

Chike Oranye
3 min readMar 6, 2023
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It is one thing to enter a relationship, and it is another thing to maintain it. Starting a relationship is the easy part, as difficult as that may seem to believe.

Relationships, just like everything else worth getting, require maintenance. Many people are in terrible relationships because they think getting into a relationship is all the work needed to have a good relationship.

There is nothing much to say in this introduction, and here are four reasons why your relationship sucks.

Let’s go!!!

1.) YOU HAVE NO CLEAR DEFINITION OF WHAT WOULD MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP GREAT

As long as there is no yardstick to measure how well your relationship is against it, the relationship will always be terrible. You can quickly fix this by having relationship goals. No! Not the ones you see on Instagram. It would be best if you defined with your partner what having a great relationship means to both of you and continually work to achieve and maintain the goals set and agreed upon by you.

2.) YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE OF HOW GREAT RELATIONSHIPS RUN

My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge — Hosea 4 vs 6.

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

Written by Chike Oranye

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