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4 THINGS EVERY MAN SHOULD PROVIDE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Chike Oranye
6 min readMay 19, 2023

I got inspired to write today’s post after listening to a relationship podcast on gender roles in a relationship.

Now, for all MEN reading this, there are things you should provide for yourself and your significant other when you decide to enter a relationship. Now, notice the emphasis on MEN. The fact you are a “grown male” does not necessarily mean you are a man. Being a developed male is a result of biology and time, but being a man is by choice. MEN ARE BUILT, NOT BORN.

There’s a lot of B.S. in the relationship space especially concerning what a man should bring to the table in a relationship or marriage. I want to explicitly state that money is not the only thing you should provide in a relationship as a man. Being able to give financially alone does not automatically make you a man. There is so much to a man and what he offers than money.

So, for the love of god and everything holy, leave hungry women with skewed expectations and lifestyle standards they can never provide for themselves alone.

Below are four things a man SHOULD provide in a relationship or marriage. Let’s go!!!

1.) LEADERSHIP

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

Written by Chike Oranye

Relationship coach for smart people who make dumb dating choices

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