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6 MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE AFTER A BREAKUP

Chike Oranye
7 min readApr 19, 2023
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You are in one out of three categories of people reading this. Category one; you’ve just come out of a relationship or, using the proper terminology, “a breakup,and you are looking for what not to do to make the “breakup effect” worse. You have come to the right place, and this post will surely help you. Category two; you’re here because you saw an ad on this post on one of the social media outlets, which piqued your interest, and you decided to check it out. Category three; you are a subscriber and got the blog post alert. I don’t mean to pick favourites here, but let’s say that people in category three are dear to my heart.

Breakups are messy most of the time, especially if the cause of the split was infidelity. The real challenge comes after the breakup. You know, that stage where you try to move on while pretending like you did not just share intimate parts and moments of your life with someone else for a considerable period. In these trying times, the tendency to slip back into old toxic habits and people is very high. So as a relationship expert, let me give you the things NOT TO DO AT ANY COST AFTER YOUR BREAKUP. You noticed it was in all caps, right? That’s to signify the importance of what I’m about…

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

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