Are you sure it's a good idea to enter a relationship right now? It seems to me you've not completely healed from past hurt. And if you've not completely healed, no matter how interested you are in the current man you're talking to, you'd never be able to fully pour into him at the depth and level he needs, and you'd always subconsciously have your walls up.
My advice, take things slow...very slow.
Wishing you love and light