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The Hidden cost of poor sexual communication

Chike Oranye
4 min readOct 8, 2023

Speech is silver, but silence is golden—Thomas Carlyle

We’ve all heard the shortened version of this original quote by Thomas Carlyle which is “Silence is golden” at one time or the other in our lives.

This quote refers to the idea that sometimes saying nothing in some situations, predicaments or circumstances is the best option. This quote however does not apply to issues relating to sexual frustration as a result of “incompatibility” between romantic couples. It makes it worse. Much worse.

When it comes to sexual frustration, saying something however mundane or irrelevant concerning the issue is always the better option because it increases your chances of actually having consistent, pleasurable and satisfying sexual experiences with your romantic partner.

Last week we started the journey to find the root causes of sexual incompatibility. So far…so good I guess.

If you’re new here,

You can check out last week’s post to know what you missed.

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

Written by Chike Oranye

Relationship coach for smart people who make dumb dating choices

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