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The Not-So-Subtle Art of Navigating Bedroom Differences

Chike Oranye
5 min readOct 7, 2023

This month’s pain point is….

✨Sexual Incompatibility✨. Although I know some of you may have guessed correctly from the title.

Anyhoo…After a deep dive into the dark side of Reddit, while simultaneously having Tom Odell in the background, I began pondering on the issue as quite a disturbing amount of people had it. I almost shed a tear reading the posts. I was

But I didn’t.

Sexual incompatibility occurs when two people in a committed romantic relationship, often in marriage, have different sexual preferences, desires, and needs, especially in terms of what they want to do and receive during sex. This difference in sexual desires and fantasies can lead to conflicts and a sense of disconnection, ultimately harming the intimacy and closeness of their relationship.

Using the “root cause” method I spoke about two weeks ago, I found out that sexual incompatibility has 4 major factors that contribute to it;

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

Written by Chike Oranye

Relationship coach for smart people who make dumb dating choices

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