3 Ways to Know She Is Toxic

Chike Oranye
2 min readJun 6, 2023
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Since the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard fiasco, the world was shown that the term “toxic woman” wasn’t just a myth. Since the trial, a lot of people have realised that quite a several women are horrible people.

Some women are horrible people to be friends with not to talk of being in a romantic relationship or using the proper lingo…an entanglement with them.

Some women will ruin your life if you let them run wild and bring all their toxicity with them to destabilize you.

Before committing to any woman, here are 3 signs she is toxic and you should want nothing to do with her.

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Envy

Toxic women are always envious people. They tend to envy their friends, family members and in some extreme cases their siblings excessively. They are also never happy when other people other than them celebrate good news in their lives. And because of this, they always tend to find a way to rain on people's parades by pointing out ill-conceived flaws with the news or the occasion.

She is a narcissist

A female narcissist will always be a toxic woman. From her controlling and manipulative nature, not her total lack of empathy. Everything she does will be detrimental to your overall health and life trajectory. I’ve done a deep dive on how to spot female narcissists. You can check out the blog post here

Unnecessary competition

One weird trait toxic women have is their ability to turn other people's achievements into some sort of competition for them. Healthy relationships between friends, family members and lovers are based on the mutual desire to see the people you’re in a relationship with succeed for non-toxic people.

But a toxic woman would see it as an avenue to have the upper hand by beating the achievement. In some cases, they even compete with the people they are in a romantic relationship with.

I want to tell you that toxic behaviour usually stems from a lot of unhealed childhood or life trauma, insecurity issues and in some cases, just plain old immaturity. IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO STICK AROUND A TOXIC PERSON TILL THEY CHANGE NEITHER IS IT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE THEM.

THE BEST THING TO DO WHEN YOU SEE OR MEET TOXIC PEOPLE IS TO LEAVE.

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Chike Oranye
Chike Oranye

Written by Chike Oranye

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